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Communicating with Care: An Introduction to Imago Dialogue

Communication can either deepen connection or create distance in our relationships. Imago dialogue offers a structured, compassionate way to listen, reflect and respond that helps partners move from conflict to understanding. This approach encourages us to slow down, hear each other fully and build safer, more connected relationships.

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Grounding Techniques for Anxiety and Overwhelm: Practical Skills to Reconnect with the Present

When anxiety, overwhelm, or dissociation take hold, grounding techniques can offer a lifeline — helping you return to the here-and-now with gentleness and intention. In this post, we explore a range of practical grounding skills you can use anytime, including sensory, physical, and breath-based methods, as well as the DBT TIPP technique for intense emotions. You’ll also find a guided body scan meditation to support calm and reconnection.

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From Past to Present: How Attachment Styles Influence the Way We Relate

Have you ever wondered why some people find closeness comforting while others find it overwhelming?
Attachment styles are patterns we develop in childhood that can influence not only how we connect with others but also how we relate to ourselves. They affect trust, communication, and even the way we handle conflict.

The good news is that attachment styles are not fixed. With awareness and support, it is possible to move toward more secure and fulfilling relationships.

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Learning to Be on Your Own Side: Practising Self-Compassion

This post explores what self-compassion really means and why it matters—not as a luxury, but as a powerful tool for resilience and growth. With reflective prompts and grounded practices, you’ll find gentle ways to quiet the inner critic, respond to struggle with kindness, and build a more supportive relationship with yourself.

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More Than a Joke: Humour as a Defence Mechanism

This post explores how humour works as a psychological defence, when it helps, and when it might be hiding something deeper. Whether you recognise this pattern in yourself or in others, you’ll find thoughtful reflections and practical ways to meet it with curiosity and compassion.

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Unravelling Shame: understanding, exploring, and softening the voice within

Exploring the difference between guilt and shame, this post offers insight into how shame can quietly shape our self-worth, relationships, and capacity for change. Whether you're navigating your own healing or supporting someone else, this is a compassionate guide to understanding shame and beginning to loosen its grip.

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Sitting With Your Feelings: A Guide to Slowing Down and Tuning In

We often hear the phrase “sit with your feelings”, but what does it really mean? This post explores the practice of slowing down and turning towards your emotions - rather than avoiding or fixing them. Learn how sitting with your feelings can support emotional awareness, resilience and a deeper connection with yourself.

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